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I think you need to give yourself a break. It sounds like you're being very hard on yourself. A lot of people are shy/nervous, so don't think you're the only one. Also, you're still young, growing up and finding out who you are. I would try to take things a little lighter... I used to be just like you.. very nervous, but a very considerate person. But then you realize, not all people deserve your kindness! Stand up for yourself more!! and try to do something new and exciting that you like, not to try to just meet guys.