I was dating my manager for around five months. We went through a lot of things that showed me that I meant a lot to him. We don't call each other boyfriend or girlfriend, because he just had a son in July and doesn't want to move too fast. I completely understood, but today he got fired.
He said this to me:
"I got terminated. I don't want to talk. I just thought you should know. Also, i'm going to need my space. I don't know for how long but I don't want you to wait on me. Have a good night. I'm sorry."
I said what?
He said: I'm not sure. I don't have any sort of thought process. I just don't want you worrying about me and waiting for me to get in touch with you.
So what now?
What do I do??
How can I just go about my life and not wait on him. He means too much to me for me to do that.
Any thoughts on this?
Most Helpful Guy
Being out of work is a huge loss for some guys. I feel he's just gonna be brooding over being out of work and he doesn't want you to be exposed to all his man-drama. Just respond that you will always be available to listen when he's ready to talk.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe you should give him a little space. I mean he does need some time to cope with things. Like maybe a week or two? Then go and check up on him and see what's up?1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE