Most Helpful Guy
-Maybe they don't look for a long term relationship coz they don't imagine themselves with ur plus size.
-You're a friendly person and they feel too comfortable with u soon, and that you'e easy to get. so play a little hard too get.
-Be friends for a while choose better people, who can look for the person u are and ur beautiful face :-)
- Also, when u start to talk in the beginning always give the impression that you are looking for a little more serious thing then just casual.
You can change their approach by changing your approach and maybe loosing a little weight won't hurt. you should do it for ur own self anyway. healthier lifestyle sake lol.
good luck :-)
Most Helpful Girl
Not all guys are after sex only. But you also have to understand how what you are wearing may be interpreted by others. I'm not saying to change that, I'm just saying you can't control how others interpret things and if they think they you are wearing particular clothing to encourage advances from men, then they will make an advance. You can either articulate your boundaries and intentions, or change what you wear. But some guys do just want sex but some also want a relationship, don't assume that all men who want to be physical are only after a sexual relationship.