Most Helpful Guy
I would say mostly it would be guys that also have low self esteem. I have suffered with low self esteem all of my life, and I really can't stand confident women. They make me feel like they don't need or have any use for me. It raises my self esteem when I can look at my girl and know she is better off with me in her life.
Most Helpful Girl
Most of them. In my experience a lot of guys are looking for a princess in a tower that they get to rescue because they like the feeling of being a hero. I personally used to be that girl, but when i would get back up on my feet, the rrelationship would fall apart because the guy didn't have to rescue me or pick me back up again. I have fine that lasting relationships are mutual. I want a guy who isn't going to save me from the tower, but one who will help me find my own way out.