So there are a ton of is whom are single. I'm one myself. So I've been wondering, are you actively looking to find someone, waiting to be found, or waiting for later on in your life because of wanting more fun, etc.
Me, I'm actively looking, but as anyone who knows me know, I'm ugly.
- LookingVote A
- Waiting to be foundVote B
- Having fun.Vote C
- other, explain.Vote D
Most Helpful Girl
Kinda half and half. Like, I'll approach the guy (in a friendly sense), but I wait for him to make an actual move (like ask me out). So at least I'm doing a taste of the work and not expecting the guy to do everything.1
Most Helpful Guy
I'm not looking. The problem with being involuntarily single is never a matter of looking hard enough. It's usually internal and that must be resolved before someone else enters your life.
Very, VERY rarely will a girl be the one who rights the ship AND loves you romantically. Usually you fix yourself first, then the results follow.3