Most Helpful Guy
It means I'm about to make a big, life-altering mistake in my finances and tarnish my feelings of self-worth.
Most Helpful Girl
They may not be ready to settle down, don't like commitment (so they wouldn't be loyal and hurt the girl, so instead choose to distance himself), she may be a distraction. Personally when I start developing feelings for someone I try distance myself because they may not feel the same and don't want to get hurt