Break/Pause in the relationship?
What Girls Said 2
she got into the realtionship too fast without dealing with her last one. That's bad news. A "break" is a break-up. Either she is with you or she isn't. Don't let her lead you on with "I just need space right now". If she doesn't feel comfortable with the realtionship and what is happening between you then she should have the decency to end it clear and cut, not drag it out. You shouldn't wait around to see if she "figures her stuff out" and then decides to be fully invested in your realtionship again.
My boyfriend and I are currently in the same unfortunate situation. Whether or not it's normal, I have no idea, but if she's asking for a break with the intentions to figure things out chances are that's exactly what she wants. Regardless, you should still set rules for the break such as if she were to be with or consider being with another person she has to tell you and so on. Trust me i know the whole situation sucks for lack of a better word, but taking a break has been the best thing for my relationship. I hope everything works out for the best, but just relax for now and let her have her space.
What Guys Said 0
Be the first guy to share an opinion
and earn 1 more Xper point!
You cannot undo this action. The opinion owner is going to be notified and earn 7 XPER points.