so i dont understand: there's a guy i like. We've been on several dates now but except for the first date, im always the one asking him out. I dont mind tbh, bc this way im in control and i can see him whenever i want it. and he seems to be comfortable with this pattern. He even told me -litterally- that whenever i feel like seeing him or going out with him, i could always text or call him. After he said that howevrr, i waited and waited for months for him to call me, just to test if he would chase me, but he didn't. After a long time, i finally texted him again, askung him out and he agreed and so we went out together.
Im confused, shouldn't the guy ask out the girl what does it mean when the roles are reversed? Guys, do you like it when the girl's in control?
Dont mind my English brw, im not a native.