Met this great gal. We hit it off like crazy. First date was great. She says she had a lot of fun. So I text her (not too much) and she replys enthusiastically, but it takes her a while. She is very shy and admits that she sucks at texting. Problem is that it is always me texting her first and she doesn't ask questions about me or try to carry the conversation further. It is starting to feel like maybe I'm the only one interested. Strangely I feel like she likes me but I'm doing everything. How long do I continue to initiate everything before I just figure she's not really interested?
How long do I chase before I give up?
What Girls Said 3
You have to realize that not everyone is right on the keys tapping out a reply to your text as soon as they receive it, things get in the way sometimes. I don't always text back right away unless it's my fiancé, an emergency or the text needs to be answered quickly.
If you hit it off with her keep persuing her until she gives you a definite answer either way. If she turns you down then you'll know you gave it your best shot, she wasn't interested for some reason. No regrets on your part, move on. If she says yes, make sure you're a gentleman on your best behavior, find out what she likes in a guy and be him! Just don't change yourself into something you're not for her or any girl.0
It's not a race, only a marathon.0
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