Is it wrong to manipulate someones emotions just to sex with them and move on? Does it seem like men or women do more of this? How much would this hurt someone? Is it wrong to have sex without love?
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They say only men do that, but I used to back in the day. I don't anymore. I've grown up from that nonsense. When I was 18 to probably about 21 I did all the time. I did it the first time when I was 18 and I was surprised that a guy fell for that. I didn't think guys got sentimental over "I love you." I thought that made them uncomfortable. I thought they were commitment phobes, especially at that age. I was wrong, and I found out a lot of guys seemed to fall for it.
Shortly after my 21st birthday I met the one that got away. I just didn't realize it at the time. I didn't want to be tied down, but I wanted to have sex. So I made him think that I really loved him and I wanted to be with him. It wasn't until after I dumped him that I realized that I fucked up big time. I don't blame him for not wanting me after that. I stopped after that though.
Now I only have sex in a relationship, and I wait. I've been with my current boyfriend for almost three years. I still regret to this day that guy, but my current boyfriend is a great man.
I wish I could go back in time and tell my 18 year old self not to pull those kind of stunts. At the time I believed that guys didn't have strong feelings like girls. I didn't think they got hurt as bad or anything. I've found out just how wrong I was. If you do this, take it from my experience and don't. I regret it all. I can admit that I was just a dumb bitch at the time.4