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They say only men do that, but I used to back in the day. I don't anymore. I've grown up from that nonsense. When I was 18 to probably about 21 I did all the time. I did it the first time when I was 18 and I was surprised that a guy fell for that. I didn't think guys got sentimental over "I love you." I thought that made them uncomfortable. I thought they were commitment phobes, especially at that age. I was wrong, and I found out a lot of guys seemed to fall for it.
Shortly after my 21st birthday I met the one that got away. I just didn't realize it at the time. I didn't want to be tied down, but I wanted to have sex. So I made him think that I really loved him and I wanted to be with him. It wasn't until after I dumped him that I realized that I fucked up big time. I don't blame him for not wanting me after that. I stopped after that though.
Now I only have sex in a relationship, and I wait. I've been with my current boyfriend for almost three years. I still regret to this day that guy, but my current boyfriend is a great man.
I wish I could go back in time and tell my 18 year old self not to pull those kind of stunts. At the time I believed that guys didn't have strong feelings like girls. I didn't think they got hurt as bad or anything. I've found out just how wrong I was. If you do this, take it from my experience and don't. I regret it all. I can admit that I was just a dumb bitch at the time.4