The thing that bothers me is that I see the same girls talk to other guys and they're very open with them and not shy or anything, but with me it seems like they have some sought of guard up. It's starting to affect my confidence and I don't know what else to do. I really need some advice on this because it's breaking me down.
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Maybe you are too good looking for them, and they are intimidated lol. Seriously though, a lot of people your age, are still very much shy, and aren't ready for committed relationships. Have you actually ask a girl out or told them how you really feel? If you have, maybe you did it too soon, as people these days prefer to start out as friends and then progress the relationship to the next level. There is nothing wrong with being 19 and still a virgin, don't rush it. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 27.