I am pretty convinced they are in it for the money. What else is there? It's not like you will understand them too well, they are 10 years older than you after all. But they sure have a wallet they can share with you, no wonder you're interested in leeching, eh?
- YES I COMPLETELY AGREE
- NO I COMPLETELY DISAGREE
- WELL YES I MOSTLY AGREE BUT IT IS NOT ALWAYS THE CASE
- WELL NO I SOMETIMES DISAGREE BUT IT IS MOSTLY THE CASE
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Most Helpful Girl
I have to disagree. I was 19 and my boyfriend was 39 at the time. We're still together and I'm 23 and him 44. I work full time, we split everything, I've also taken care of him. I have my own car that I bought myself and he has a car and truck. I lost my virginity to him why? Because he is incredibly sexy, funny, witty and our personalities match. We always have fun and never get tired of each other. Now I still am attracted to guys my own age but I love him because of him!
Most Helpful Guy
It's a suspect situation sometimes. I hear girls say they like older guys because they're "established", which I do read as "they have money", but I'm not ready to paint everyone with the same brush. Older guys are also past the game-playing phase, know what they want and are looking for, they have more maturity. It just might be a better fit for some girls. And it's nothing new, girls always have seemed to go for older guys. I didn't have a shot with the hottest girls in 8th grade when I was 14 because they were already dating some 17 year old guy. But those guys probably had no money.
To give another example, my gf is 31 (29 if anyone asks😆), but I met her when she had just turned 23. She always has said she likes older guys, and I relentlessly mock her for it, haha. And she's a hot chick that lived in New York City, no doubt she could have found an older sugar daddy. She always dated up, when she was 19 her boyfriend was pushing 30. And I'm 5 years older than her, which isn't crazy, but still. And one of her reasons she left the other guy was that he was extremely jealous, and tried to pay her $1,000 to not go out with her friends one night. She could have taken it, but she was like "fuck that, you're not going to control me with money." She started dating me when I was just bouncing for like 25 hours a week and was probably making $11K a year, I was BROKE. She was actually buying ME shit at first. So I think she just digs the look of older guys, like WAY older. Here's her top 3 celebrity crushes...
John Slattery (Roger Sterling from Mad Men)
Anderson Cooper (US news anchor)
It's werd when you don't worry about a young prettyboy dude stealing your girl, and instead have to be on the lookout for "Silver Foxes", as she calls them, with white or gray hair, if any😂😂😂