Ok so I came across this girl's profile on OkCupid. I thought she was beautiful but I didn't message her straight away. A couple days later I just happened to come across her YouTube page by pure coincidence because I recognised her picture as its the same one as her OkCupid profile picture. I wasn't cyber-stalking her or anything. Anyway after looking through her YouTube page I see that we have a lot in common and her personality is just as beautiful as she is. Sounds lame but I developed a crush on her. So I decided to message her on OkCupid as messaging her on YouTube would be weird and she wouldn't respond.
This was my message:
Hey how's it going *her name*
I'm tryna think of something else to say other than you look gorgeous cos I'm assuming you get tons of similar messages lol
Anyway, I just wanted to say Hi and introduce myself. Would really like to chat to you and get to know you a little so don't hesitate to send me a message xx
Hope to hear from you soon :)
She read it 3 weeks later but she didn't respond :(
Did my message suck? Did it sound desperate? What's wrong with it?
I know it could be other things like she wasn't attracted to my looks or my profile was boring. But I just wanna know if that message was lame.
I'm really tempted to send a follow up message :/
Girls what do you think? / Guys what openers do you use?
Most Helpful Girl
You fked up. That's stalker status0
Most Helpful Guy
She's probably received hundreds of other messages during those three weeks, some of them are bound to be better looking guys, or guys that can spell.0