….without even approaching them.
So, I’ve been reading these answers for a while here.Basically,how can we unite this two statements together,so maybe you can help me to understand:
Why in one case people insist in the fact that you need to know that person before judge them,but then same people judge pretty girls. Based on their looks,actually.
sometimes to the point when guys prefer to date/marry avarage girl,because of their judgement towards pretty girl.
some even claimed here “avarage girl won’t cheat". well,why they assume pretty girl will? “Looks aren’t everything,you know”... But they don’t trust her, just because she has a beautiful face,won’t even try to get to know her as a person.
everyone should approach everyone lol :)
Most Helpful Guy
We tend to make generalizations to make our reality better.
Look... if we haven't been able to get a hot girl, we'll say bad things about her and that will make us feel better. That way I can feel that I haven't been able to get her, because she only cares about looks, not because I'm scared as hell of being with her.
It's a matter of ego, mostly.
Most Helpful Girl
It's based on schemas: a pattern of thought that categorizes information so we don't go crazy over everything we see and attempt to understand. So, when we see a pretty girl, we tend to assume she's stuck up and automatically decide not to talk to her. Clearly, not every pretty girl is stuck up, nor does everybody have this pattern of thought. This schema comes up through past experiences with pretty girls, and/or a thought that makes us temporarily feel better that we dealt with the scenario appropriately.