Lastly, one time we were talking and he asked "how do you feel about homosexuals?" I said I was completely fine with them, then he said "okay, I'm not saying I'm gay, but my friend is a lesbian and we hung out today." I feel like he shouldn't have had to clarify he isn't gay...
- He's gay
- He's straight
- Not sure
Most Helpful Guy
If he was gay he would be looking for guys on OkCupid, not girls. Don't stereotype his behaviour... people can like feminine things and still like to have sex with women. Who cares? If you like him, and he likes you, nothing else should matter.
Basically, if he wants to date a girl, he is not gay. Could he be bi? Sure, but that shouldn't change anything. If he wants to date you, he will date you. He probably felt that he had to say "I'm not gay" because he gets accused of being gay frequently because of his interests.
Most Helpful Girl
that's hard to tell. I think you are over thinking.