This is something that isn't that common to find in general with friendships but i've found its even more the case in relationships.
Like disinterest in philosophy, disinterest in the details of the relationship and the differences, no interest in discussing them.
I guess there is a more non confrontational attitude girls have that stems with this but it seems so rare to find girls you can actually communicate with beyond surface level
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1. Some people don't have much interest or knowledge in intellectual topics.
2. Some people may have an interest in these things, but feel intimidated or shy about talking about them (fear of judgment, fear of confrontation, fear of sounding stupid, etc.).
And I find that these things are true of some women and some men.
Personally, I love having intellectual conversations. My partner and I can talk for hours about philosophy, religion, science, politics, and so on. That said, I prefer to talk about these subjects with someone I feel comfortable with and who I know isn't going to be judgmental.1