- Guy said it first
- Girl said it first
Most Helpful Guy
I never think about either one having to say it first. I'll say it when I truly know that's how I feel about a girl. If I say it to her I don't expect her to say it back. Me loving her doesn't mean she will love me back. So many people say "I love you" only because they just want their partner to say it. For me it will most likely be months maybe years before I'll say it.
Most Helpful Girl
That honestly sounds kind of shady, like you're withholding love because you don't want to get hurt, like it's not OK to let them know how you feel unless they feel it too. I'd rather that whoever feels it first, will just say it so that the other person can be honest about it. If they don't feel it, I'd wanna know so that I can stop wasting both our time.