- Before whenever I'd text her, she would always try and hold a conversation. This week she only gave me quick replies, and didn't seem at all enthusiastic about texting me.
- In the past two weeks she was willing to come and hang out the same day I asked her to, but this week she said she had "other plans".
Literally it seems like her enthusiasm about the whole thing just died over the weekend. I'd only ever contact her once every other day at best, not really every day. I'm not really a clingy person and I don't think I was coming off as such.
She hasn't explicitly told me that she isn't interested anymore, but I get the feeling that's the case.
Attitude wise, I was definitely more casual and laid back towards this than my previous dating experience, I was more in the camp of having a bit of fun with the possibility of seeing where it goes, rather than all out trying for a relationship. Maybe I came off as just wanting sex? Regardless though it's kind of frustrating and confusing as to what happened. Maybe she met another guy, or maybe she was just using me to fulfill a need? It's clear she's led me on, and all I can think of right now is to simply assume that it's dead until she contacts me otherwise, and open myself to other women.
Girls: What the hell happened? Why would a girl do this?