so I've been dating a guy for around 3 weeks now. we used to text every day, he always texted me first , sent me daily good morning and good night texts and texted me throughout the day even when he was at work. well he also told me he really likes me, that i'm beautiful, gorgeous, etc.
he told me lots of personal things and i told him as well. then i told him (indirectly) that i really really like him 4 days ago when he went back home to romania to visit family over the Easter holidays.. since the day he left he completely ignored my texts.
i always see that he obviously read my whatsapp messages but he always chose not to reply.. so i asked him if i said sth wrong or which could have made him run away but he even ignored this text.. haven't texted him after that anymore.. so what shall i do now? did he lose interest in me? is he just very busy (this would ibviously be a lie then since he also gad time to text when ge waa at work)? Does he need space? Did he just pull away?
why do some guys actually pull away some times and is it always a negative reason begind that?
its so hard to keep myself from texting him more but i dont wanna come across as needy...
Guys, What is going through your mind when you're starting to ignore a girl?
How can i make him chase me?
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HE isn't ready to fully commit to feelings emotionally and romantically. Don't get your hopes up any more than what you have. Im not saying to stop contacting him but don't contact him that much.
Do what you can to meet other people and not let your feelings that could possibly be one sided destroy you.
If its obvious that he is reading them and not responding every time then its possible that he just wants to feel the enjoyment of having that power to fool with your emotions. I know because I am a DUDE and I've done it. I've done it a lot when I've been extremely hurt by women and then git to take revenge on women who actually didn't deserve it because a woman who I liked a lot and didn't deserve my feelings hurt me.
It might be power or possibly for reasons why he hasn't responded back to you by coincidence that heir might just be a logical innocent reason behind him not responding to you.
But really... Don't spend anymore time wondering. Let life continue for you and see where it takes you from there. If he contacts you then you have a choice from that pont whether or not to pursue it2
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