I get flirted with a lot but I have a major health issue, it's not something you can see by looking at me. It's a little hiccup with one of my organs. Nothing is noticeably different about me other than two, three inch parallel scares in the bend of my arm. I don't want a guy to think I'm fragile! I am very outspoken, proud of who I am and what I have overcame. I also have a sense of humor and don't like to be pitied.
It's scary trying to date guys, I'm different! How would you react?
What Guys Said 3
I fell in love with a girl who had your problem when I was in the hospital back when I was an early teenager.
Men are definitely not afraid of dating weak women though, I'll tell you that right now... so if you're trying to seem tougher than you are so they'll like you, then don't. If you just happen to be a loud, tough person though, than that's different.0
You are a strong woman ;-) stay positive0
What Girls Said 1
I have a lot of health issues myself and have had zero issues with guys treating me different. They're meeting you the way you now. If you don't act fragile, they won't see you as fragile. And if they ask about your scars you have an awesome hardcore story to share :D0
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