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Most people who do that are afraid of themselves. And yes, you can be afraid of getting hurt, but in the end, you are STILL running from yourself. Something deep down, an inner turmoil that you haven't come to terms with.
This happened to me. Everything was amazing, then she got worried, pushed me away and now we have nothing. I was so in love and she crushed me. I know she regretted it but the damage was done. After that and a couple of other previous disasters with women screwing me around, I will never fully trust a woman again.
Yes, you can still be in love and do that. For me I doubted my feelings for those same reasons. I continued dating that person while telling myself, every time I felt that doubt or insecurity, that it was going to be okay. Then at some point, I got over it. Or I made peace with it. And I realised that I did like that person.
Yep. I used to do that. I did it because I wanted to reject them, before they rejected me. I made myself believe the pain wouldn't be so bad that way but it hurts either way. Some people feel they don't deserve love either. That's another reason they push it away. They don't see what you love about them because they don't love themselves. That's why they say to love yourself first.
Yes it does happen
push and pull syndrome 101
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