Even though I'm not in a committed relationship with neither guy, I feel bad for like two guys at the same time. They have two different personalities and I'm really cool with both of them. They aren't friends with each other but do know each other. They both liked me for almost a year and since I'm no longer in a relationship they're both confessed to me. I'm not ready for another long-term relationship and both of them are LTR-potential, I just want to see what's out there for me (was in a relationship for 19 months before my ex ended it).
Why do i feel so bad? I told them both I don't want anything serious and one has told me he felt the same plus he didn't have time for a relationship but has tried to kiss me and has openly told people he liked me. The other guy is looking but agreed to just go with the flow and he's confided to my bestie multiple times about liking me.
What are your opinions?
Most Helpful Guy
That's not liking. You literally are baiting both of them. It's clear they both want a relationship so stop wasting their time and tell them you have no interest. It makes no sense for you to be lurking them by giving them mixed signals. You can be just friends with guys that want a relationship. Cough* friend zone is messed up. You feel bad because you know you want attention. I'm new to this so rate/correct me if I'm wrong0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
No, it's perfectly fine and normal. I have liked two guys at once before. It kind of sucked for me because my heart was conflicted, but you can't help how you feel.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE