Do I just wait and hope he and her don't work out, or do I give him a reason to make up his mind?! Meaning, spend plutonic time with him so that he is reminded of his other option? What to do???
- trust in fateVote A
- take actionVote B
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I say take action. BUT yes as you say stay a good friend. Don't become the plutonic friend to talk about his feelings about being unsure with his ex.
Try and keep his mind off it and do fun things.
But also give him space and go a bit off the radar or he may feel so confused he shuts you both out.
But to be fair, if they were good together there are still feelings for each other, they may have broken up for a silly reason etc .
Then it's kinder to not try and jepordise this. So subtlety is the key.
Imagine if a few months down the line you changed your mind or it just didn't feel right, when the whole time they could have been in a good relationship for life, which wasd quashed by him getting with someone else and her moving on.
It's hard to say. Anyway you too could be great friends either way.
Oh and she isn't threatening to move closer haha it's threatening to you maybe x0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE