Most Helpful Guy
Hmmmm well i see a few comparisons between me and him. First off you need to accept the fact he may want you to come after him, that is perhaps not true but still might be the case. He may see you as a potential long term relationship partner and ultimately someone to hold onto without all the sex. He may want to know you on a deeper level and become attracted to who you are underneath the public face. This can be an issue when it comes to you wanting to fuck everything you see. But you have to also know when to understand where he's coming from.
Most Helpful Girl
Accept what about the 21st century? Settle/compromising on things like this is not an option. You know how many women compromise/settle just to keep the guy and end up miserable. This women wanted to marry this guy so bad she agreed to an open marriage. She never stepped out on the marriage while he ran around town sleeping with women and men while she stayed home with the kids. She became bitter and angry. They finally got a divorce after she keyed one of her husbands lovers car.
In short don't settle for less then what you deserve. You will be miserable and hurt. He wants an open relationship minus the relationship. I've never understood this but whatever.