I know from a mutual friend that he was married, but I'm sure he doesn't know I know, so why has he never told me himself? Aren't these things usually disclosed pretty early on? Is it considered a lie?
Most Helpful Guy
he didn't because he's AFRAID how would u take it basically...;-)1
Most Helpful Girl
People don't reveal everything about themselves right away. He needs to build that trust with you. Your relationship is fairly new, he has plenty of time to tell you.
Besides If both of you haven't spoken about your past relationships don't expect him to say it out of no where. It doesn't suit the topic at all.1