She wants to take it slow because she just not ready for a relationship just yet?
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My friend we are in the same exact boat! I have this internal fight going on inside my head. Like is he really ready? Does he feel the same way or am I just a rebound? Staying optimistic is the key. Each day is a new day and a progression towards another day you get to keep breaking her totally understandable "walls" down. A brick at a time bud. I have been single for 4 years now and the guys I met a little over a month ago just got divorced from a 8yr marriage that ended pretty bad. He's been single for 5 months. "Let's take it slow" he says so I do. I want him to feel comfortable and trust me. I don't want to scare him away. But I just get so excited at the thought of what could be that I have to take a step back and realize it's so so early in the "relationship" that anything could happen. At least your not being led on and at least you know she's not afraid of commitment, just the fear of being let down again is almost unbearable and totally called for. We can both understand that. So what I do is just try to make it as natural as possible... going with the flow. I find places like this to vent to or ask questions on. I think you are doing the only thing possible at this point... waiting. People say the best things don't come easy. So just keep your head up and prove to this lady that you have the patience and understanding that she needs. BUT!! Do not.. I repeat! DO NOT be led on and waste your time. The best advise... If after 2 months she can't decide that you are worth the shot. Let her know what YOU want and end it on the best terms possible. Don't sell yourself short for happiness my friend. Best of Luck!!
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