Do you just go with a simple hello? Hi there? What's up? Or do you add more to that?
I can keep the coversation going it's just reaching out I'm asking about.
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe something like "wow there really is other fish in the sea"
Most Helpful Guy
As is the case with ALL dating websites, women are going to be barraged with messages all day. They often read and ignore unless someone catches their eye (ie. He's attractive or she likes his personality/message).
They will completely skip over your e-mail if you only say "Hey" or ask how they're doing unless you're attractive. If you're average, try personalizing your e-mail to their profile and mentioning common interests but don't put too much effort into the message as the chances of it being ignored are >70%.