Most Helpful Guy
Nobody is going to make you happy. It is not your husband or wife's job to make you happy.
You can be happily married to them, but that is not the same.
You either love them enough to want to make them happy and try working out a life together, or you don't. If you are thinking about other people, about other options, then you're not ready for it. It is the kind of thing you don't have second thoughts about.
Most Helpful Girl
i have fallen in love and broke up with them and found someone new that was more wonderful than the last. Not once did I ever think that I wasn't ever really in love with the last Person.
You know if you're truly happy when the thoughts you're having aren't even in your mind. only you can make yourself happy and if you start to wonder if you're truly happy then I think it's a waste of time.