We all know that sometimes you think you're in love and you could never live without the person. Then you break up and you met someone new and you realise that you were actually never really in love or so. . Yes I know if you're saying for years you get comfortable and learn to love the person over time. So if you marry your first bf/gf how do you know you're truly happy and in love and that no one else can make you more happy?
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Nobody is going to make you happy. It is not your husband or wife's job to make you happy.
You can be happily married to them, but that is not the same.
You either love them enough to want to make them happy and try working out a life together, or you don't. If you are thinking about other people, about other options, then you're not ready for it. It is the kind of thing you don't have second thoughts about.1