Seriously, what about me is so ugly, why do I have to be so ugly? I never get the girl, seriously, never, it's almost like my life's a shitty comedy. Even girls that act like they might be attracted to my looks turn me down. Every time I text any girl they take about 30 minutes to an hour to reply, on average, whereas my guy friends take about 5 minutes. WHAT IS IT ABOUT ME, AHAHAHAHA, MAYBE I SHOULD JUST TAKE A KNIFE TO MY FACE AND FIX IT? Every girl I'm interested in seems to turn me down, by now I utterly sever a girl from my life if she takes too long to respond, because, well, we see where that's going. I'm thinking that maybe, whenever I like a girl, I should just hurt myself, badly, to condition myself from liking any other girls, how does that sound? Also, should I just give up on girls entirely, don't even bother talking to them, don't even acknowledge them? Hell, they seem to ignore me for the most part anyway, and I can't help being fucking ugly, so maybe I should regard them as pathetic insects and ignore them?
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Well, yeah, hurting yourself to condition yourself might be good idea.
But wait. There is an even better one, so forget that hurting shit!
Look, I know what you feel like, I am kinda like you with regard to that,
I don't look really good and people don't really like me in general.
What I do is just accepting it and acting like it does not matter, because, you know, actually it really does not matter, just do not give a fuck and life will be a lot funnier and more relaxed.
A little side-story would be how I got to know some girl not too long ago - when I gave up on all that stuff already - and well, she does not really care what I look like, she just likes my personality and I really like her and well yeah, it just works, so what I mean to tell you, stop thinking about all that shit and do not care about how your looks might be perceived,
just relax for some time and some day, not too far away, you will meet some girl that you will 'get'.
I am sorry, I did not really say a lot about that ugly-thingy which the question actually seems to be about, but well, maybe I could help you anyways.0