Most Helpful Guy
Don't have sex with him for awhile. Usually if guys just are using a girl for sex they won't wait very long for her. Not responding doesn't mean he's not interested. He could just be busy or he could've fallen asleep or any number of things. My gf thought I was ignoring her today but I actually tried to take a 30 minute nap and woke up 4 hours later
Most Helpful Girl
I had the same question recently. And the best way I took control of this insecurity was to approach it as not what I am looking for but how I'm feeling about all of this. Obviously you have to use some social awareness and judge his character as you are talking to him.