Most Helpful Girl
Do each of these girls know that you've asked numerous other girls out aswell?
From a female's perspective, when I see a guy asking numerous girls out, it makes me assume that he is not serious about me, or anyone at the moment, and is after something more physical.
When a guy only persues one girl in particular, and gets to know her slowly, without flirting with other girls, then I will have the impression that he is serious, thus I am much more likely to accept his advances, and take him seriously.
And even if you haven't made it public that you've asked out each of these girls, girls do "talk", so it's likely that they all know that they're not the only one.
And believe me, girls like to feel that they are the only one, it makes them feel wanted, and valued.
My advice would be to slow down, don't place your pride in your looks (girls can easily tell when a guy does), just be friends with girls for a while, and see if there is a particular girl that you get on with, and if so, slowly get to know her... listen to her, show interest in her, show that you care, and that you are serious about her, and do not flirt with other girls, and after some time, when you have got to know her better... ask her out.
All the best!
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Most Helpful Guy
why post as annoymous