So I've been dating this guy for about 7 months now, from the start I knew about his girlfriend and kids. Please don't judge me I just fell for him and I feel terrible about it, but shit happens, anyway I've realised how bad what I'm doing actually is and I'm ready to better myself and not be the other woman for much longer, but I can't help my feelings for him and he means so much to me, should I give everything up or be naive and think one day he's gonna leave her to commit to me?
- Leave himVote A
- Stay with himVote B
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*shake my head*
Let's say he does leave her for you. Do you honestly think he might not do the same thing he did to her to you?
I don't know why he's stepping out on his girl, but he's playing you for a fool. He's telling you things that he knows will get you to stay and then he goes home to his girl who he is definitely not planning on leaving I'm sure who has his kids.
He's going to abandon you first. Leave him. And I would also come clean with his girl as well because I couldn't ever do that to another human being.4