But I can't help but think he didn't want me there. He explained that his nightly routine means a lot to him and that he likes to be prepared if im going to be sleeping over (i didn't get it). He'd also NEVER cheat or do anything dishonest, so it wasn't that.
I got really emotional and hurt over it becuase I'm insecure -- was this a stupid thing to get upset about? Will it push him away?
Most Helpful Guy
He wasn't rejecting you; he's probably a "planner" type of personality, so everything has to be cleaned up and looking just right for him to feel comfortable. It's not something you can change; he'll always be that way, so if you get upset at him every time he reacts that way, you're gonna have a bad time.
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe his reaction just rubbed you the wrong way. It was a misunderstanding but hey it happens. You guys talked and it seems like he made you feel better so no I don't think it will push him away.