I go to the GYM every day, I love to learn cooking I am going for my degree of fire science and paramedics. I absolutely love the ocean and always find happiness in making people laugh and be comfortable around me. About a year ago I went through a very traumatic experience losing my circle of friends hobbies, a long term girlfriend and ultimatly my trust for most all the people close to me and my dog died... i know we can't all rely on each other all the time as people, sometimes things arn't meant to be. Over ths past year I've come out of a suicidal slump, began new friendships, moved to another state 3000 miles away and began a new life. I have been mulling over the ideals of having a girlfriend, I have tried friends with benefits thing but it makes me feel hollow inside. Ultimately I want to know if I can be ready to take another go at this relationship thing or travel and work on myself.. what should i do?
I'm a young fit and good looking guy should I be ready to date again?
What Girls Said 2
In all honesty it completely depends on you and the girl. In my opinion. Don't look too hard. The greatest things come when you're least expecting it. Let it happen, because it will. When it does, that's when you have the choice to let her in or not. You said your last relationship was a bit of a burden, remember not all girls come off that way. You may end up finding the one you need more than she needs you. You seem like you've gotten your life back on track and are ready physically, but it's all about how you are emotionally. So just decide for yourself and choose whichever option is best when it's presented to you (:0
Awww I'm so sorry these things have happened to you. I think you will know when your ready to start dating though. But to be honest it sounds like you are.1
What Guys Said 3
I went through something similar to you a few years back. Most important thing in life is having a solid social backbone first. I. e. a good network of friends. This I think is absolutely crucial, girlfriend can come after. If you free ready then go for it, otherwise continue to work on yourself.0
That's something you need to decide for yourself. Are you ready to take another stab at love?1
Yeah you are ready lol0
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