I've been so scared to let guys in because of this. Nobody knows I have these problems except for my best friends so dating a guy and having him find out is scary as hell for me. I have never even had a boyfriend or first kiss before (even though everyone thinks I already had sex...) so it'll be SO depressing if my skin makes him run for the hills. And he's different because I actually REALLY like him and it totally sucks so much
Sorry i need some self esteem boost.. without lying because i know its not attractive, it's pretty gross and horrible.
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Honestly girl there is only one way to get over this: find a guy that doest give a shit. Because I have some dark pigmentation on my pits as well, and to add on to all of that, I have hair on my you know what THAT IS THE WORST YOU CAN IMAGINE. and also I'm arab so the hair grows pretty much the next morning. i won't ever let a guy near me for this reason, but i know once i find a guy that doesn't care, i won't either. because I am actually an attractive person too thank god and a lot of guys want to get to know me, but when the right guy comes along i know all my self esteem problems will just *poof* disappear. you can do this girl, just go to the dermatologist and continue waxing those pits because I've been doing it for 2 years and i see very little darkness. Might I also suggest something called Bio-Oil its from cvs or walgreens its a short fat clearish orange cylinder shaped bottle that has a white top. Its amazing i used to have scarring on my face and it went away. Also i suggest sweet almond oil. yep just get it done