(p. s. i am really shy around new ppl)
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This is from someone who went to Ferris, which had a lot of Hmong students:
Be very careful. The men at college will all want to have sex with you.
But... very few of them can truly love you.
Your attitude and integrity will matter a great deal. Don't hold them to arbitrary standards, and don't be quick to reject the one that tries the most sincerely to get to know you. Betrayal will prove costly.
The chubby cartoonist social recluse who wants friends but doesn't connect well will be quick to analyze you to see if you're wife material. But if you give him a chance, he will defend you from men twice his size and ten times his athletic capability. He may even attempt to learn another language to impress your folks.
He'll fail miserably, but his heart will be true. Be sure to defend him from other Asian women, who will be quick to judge him and assume the worst. They will be sweet around you at first, but will turn on you if you're not as big a bitch to him as they are. Expect many false friends.
Avoid football players. They just want you when you're naked, and may even try to sodomize you. Avoid liquor. Find someone willing to abstain.