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Most Helpful Girl
A lot of people. I could be missing an opportunity with this guy I have fallen head over heels with because I can't bring myself to truly tell him how I feel. I know that he probably returns some of the feelings, but it's not enough for him to actually be with me. The problem? He's got a girlfriend. Welp, time to move on to the NEXT missed opportunity.
Most Helpful Guy
Many, MANY people are. My buddy was asking me "how do you act so calm and natural around girls, even the stunning ones", so I tried to prove a point by asking him what his problem was with being normal around girls.
I asked him to point out a girl in the area that he thought was attractive and would talk to if he "was like me". He pointed one out, but then I told him to go talk to her. He said "but what if she has a boyfriend?". I said 'So? Neither of us know, so go over and find out'.
He didn't because he was all psyched up. Between this and just the fear/anxiety of trying to talk to someone you're attracted to, people miss so many opportunities by making excuses and not dealing with their issues.
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