I read an article earlier saying that people of our generation, "the millenials," are not open to being vulnerable to love. But, I find that interesting because I feel like everyone I know who is single is looking for love. There seems to be some sort of disconnect here and I'm not sure what it is exactly. Do you think people are just becoming more isolated and less open to relationships or is it just that we are all complaining and doing nothing to fix our situation? Haha!
I for one do go out on a regular basis and go to new places I've never been before in hopes that I'll meet someone new and interesting but alas I have not met a good catch as of yet. So whats the deal?
1. Honesty: This is something that is not only important to me in relationships but also friendship.
2. Communication: Being able to sit down with someone and just talk about nothing and everything is awesome. It’s also very telling when you can just sit there in silence and be comfortable just being there with them.
4. Personal Pride: This to me is more important than ambition. If you can’t take pride in what you do for a living or in your hobbies or in your relationships or in yourself for that matter, then that is just depressing.
Most Helpful Guy
Define a good catch? Sometimes the guys who don't seem good catches at first, or even those already near to you can turn out to be special.
Have you considered taking up video games or a sport, even just to watch.
If you play video games or watch football or hockey or whatever you will have so many men along side you the chances are bound to be better.
As for the article, I think nowadays it's easier to find a date, but being easier almost makes it harder to find the right person. Tinder et al may be good for hook ups or meeting someone fast, but it is probably best to base a potential relationship on a more than just a face.
Most Helpful Girl
Not really, no.
I've had no problem getting into a relationship with a great guy who treats me wonderfully and is very compatible with me..
Meanwhile I do meet a fair number of single men and women, most of whom are far more attractive than I am, who seem to be having a hard time finding someone. I'm not sure if I was just lucky, or if it's something to do with them.