Most Helpful Guy
Here's the deal with destiny.
If it is truly destined to be, nothing you do will change it because you have no free will in the matter. It's destiny. It's predetermined. The universe has spoken, and you will listen.
If it is destiny in a this-might-happen kind of way, then it's not really destiny since it's not destined. Get my drift?
So live your life with the idea that you have free will and that there is no destiny. That you and the people around you make your lives happen. After all, if it turns out that destiny - not your decisions - is at work then it was your destiny to pretend that you had no destiny.
I personally believe as a Christian that the final destination of the world is determined (God wins; Satan loses) and that God knows the future. Yet each of us still make that future happen through our decisions. In other words, do I believe that I have a destiny? No, since the choices I make will help create my future.
In respect to your current situation, it's a surprising coincidence. Could be that you keep seeing each other because you are keeping an eye out for each other. Maybe it's a good way to go. Maybe it's not. There's no destiny, so you decide and don't feel hemmed in by coincidence.
Most Helpful Girl
No. Its not destiny. Its the devil playing with you mind. If someone pushes you away and actually tells you something like a warning this guy gave you, you need to listen. He told you that for a reason. He either really isn't into you. He's married, in a relationship or he may be crazy. Usually really dangerous people will reject you in a small way initially to see how much you want them and if they see you still pursuing them, they will latch on and suck you dry. You need to be careful. I had a similular incident happen to be, like yours. We ran into each other often. He was short with me in the beginning and I still wanted him. He turned out to be a sociopath. He was very sick and cruel to me. He also had an std he told me about after we had been intimate. Thankfully I didn't catch it because we used protection. But everything isn't a fairytale. Somethings are warnings rather than green lights. Take heed.