I have been dating this guy for 3 weeks and he is pissed at me. I was sexually abused as a kid. I dont like people touching me at all. Not even on my arm. he's pissed cuz i won't let him touch me and i won't have sex with him. I haven't told him about what happened to me cuz im scared that he will turn away in disgust.
What to do about this?
What Guys Said 1
You can't win here. He's going to leave you eventually if you don't tell him why he can't even touch your arm.
Counseling I hope. I can tell you with near infallible certainty that no one on GAG can help.
Please seek professional help.
I'm very sorry you were abused. I certainly hope he was punished.0
What Girls Said 1
It has only been 3 weeks and if he can't respect your boundaries over something like that and just jerk it instead like a respectable guy would do, dump him. He'll just be dead weight making you feel worse and worse.0
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