Been dating a guy for 8 months, a few months ago he started always initiwting contact and initiates a few times a day. does it mean he has feelings for me or cause he's bored? i know he's not using me for sex because when we do hangout we dont always have sex cause he gets tired from work so we just cuddle.
OWhen a guy always initiates contact does it mean he has feelings for the girl?
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If you're having sex, yet not in a relationship, you have NO proof he is not using you for sex.
Even if you "don't always do it, but only cuddle".
I am not saying this to hurt you, shame you, or anything, but guys generally don't date women they can drag into "friends with benefits" arrangements. They just cross her off their list of "possible future girlfriends/wives". She becomes just another lay with NO chance of turning back on it 95% of the time.
But in some cases, he wants you for long term and is truly interested. If he's always calling you, bringing you into his life, social groups (important!) and building rapport in a non-sexual way, you have good reason to hope he is not using you.
Remember, you can't know it, but you can still hope.
I wish you luck and please be careful. Don't give your heart up too early. :)
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It sounds like he likes you0
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