Most Helpful Girl
Women are not lazy or stupid, I think it is a product of how we were raised that makes us wait to be asked. Girls are basically conditioned into thinking that it is a guy's job to lead and take control of a relationship, which I think is stupid. If I'm dating a guy and I want to do something with him I'll take the initiative to set something up. Talk to your girlfriend and let her know that you want her to decide on a date. Don't call her lazy or put her down while doing though though. Maybe say "How about you plan our next date :)" or "I want to do something that you want to do!" Be fun and playful about it and see how it goes.