So today the guy I am dating told me he didn't feel like there is a spark there, but he still wants to try with us, he finds me very attractive and he likes some of my qualities and thinks they are good wife material... What does that mean there is no spark? I feel a spark why doesn't he? How can I get him to feel it?
No Spark? What does that mean?
What Guys Said 5
There is just nothing there as far as your relationship is boring I think. Maybe you two need to spice it up him included. He could do things differently as far as dates go0
He's basically saying you don't make him feel alive? Sorry to hear but he probably wants you to display some exciting sex skills in bed or something, sounds stupid, but you're probably not turning him on enough etc. well it sounds like there's not enough excitement maybe. But who tells their girl that? The term sounds kinda weird.0
Ah spark! maybe after 40 long years of marriage hits him with a spark or even with gigantic lightning! who knows? Or he may refuse it on your 2nd day of marriage! Lols but it's life and the question of judging someone relying completely on future requisition is what? I won't say it! Find out yourself gorgeous.
You can´t force him to feel that spark. Maybe if he get to know you better things will go well with both of you.0
You probably can't0
What Girls Said 1
hmm there's no spark so maybe your not right for each other, sorry0
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