1st time- She said it was her bday and she couldn't hang out (she wasn't ltying)
2nd time- She said she was on her way to a college trip.
She then said she will hmu herself when she's ready, but could the blonde be into me? or can she just be shy or just turning me down softly... She has called me baby
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I agree that it seems like she's genuine with the two excuses. I am a buy lady also, but if someone asks me out and I can't make it but I am really interested I would normally suggest a different time when I am free. It may be that she's just a lot on atm - I'm often the same. Maybe let her get in touch. If she hasn't in the next while and you want to ask again, you can always suggest it again. If she says she's busy again and doesn't offer an alternative time, then I would probably take this as a lack of interest and move on.
As for the brunette - how much do you actually like her? Do you just like the blonde only marginally, or is the brunette jsut an ego boost for you? Are they friends, and might the blonde one tell her you've already asked her out? Nobody wants to be second best and you might make things very awkward for you all if she realises she was second choice. TBH I'd wait this one out a bit. See if the blonde girl is genuinely interested. Just don;t string the brunette girl along as your back-up plan. That just isn't a very nice thing to do. You need to be clear in your own head what you want before you do anything.