I dont want to be controlling but at the same time I dont want to be a doormat and not speak my mind. Do I have a right to be mad here... and how should I address it with her?
Most Helpful Girl
You don't have a right to be mad. Yes you should let her go. If you start controlling her behaviour there's a high chance she'll get sick of it and leave you anyway. You might not believe it but people go to bars to have fun and chill with their friends too. Plus if her friends are single they have every right to sleep with whoever they want without being called sluts - you wouldn't call guys that.
Bottom line is if you can't trust her then you shouldn't be with her. You can express your mind without being a doormat but you are being unreasonable here.
Most Helpful Guy
depends what she wears out