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There's nothing wrong with you. The players don't care about you so they have nothing to lose & that's why it seems that way to you, at least you're smart enough to recognize them for what they are.
I bet there more than a few guys that like you, but there nervous because they don't want just sex. They are more subtle, unfortunately they over think thereselves to inaction & one other thing. Don't ever "dress up" for anyone other than yourself & that special guy once you find him.)