I'm shy and quiet too but guys my age have Never really been interested in dating me. Even if I initiate things, they just want to be friends! I have been approached by a guy my age but it's very rare, the majority are older men.
Guys my age hardly look twice, most stare but quickly turn their head away if caught. And when I try walking over to him so that he can talk to me, he acts like I don't exist. I'm not gonna say 'Hey I noticed you staring' but I do try to smile at the guy.
I dress pretty conservatively like barely show any skin except my hands and face and sometimes open toed shoes. Even in the Summer I cover up with jackets and stockings/tights if I wear a dress or skirt or shorts.
I have a petite frame so I feel like I'm too skinny. My friends who have thicker bodies get attention from guys our age.
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Giving up is not a valid reason to date someone else who's basically backup1