Most Helpful Girl
my first date with the guy I'm talking to. we met up and walked around the shops he bought me lunch and we then grabbed a drink each and headed to a small local garden/park and sat and chatted. we just did what we felt like.
Most Helpful Guy
I would keep it public, unless you already know each other well now, which it looks like you are doing well. Also, spot on about talking, first date for me is all about talking as much as we can to see if it should go further, the date is really just something to enhance the talking some with an activity, which is also fun. Bowling or miniature golf are two of my go to's. Even just dinner and a few CASUAL drinks while playing some pool and such is good as well!