For young guys (I'm 24), it seems like it is getting increasingly harder to find a woman who doesn't have a kid. From my own personal experiences, it seems like every woman I talk to 20-26... they already have a kid. And although these women show mild interest in me, I cannot see myself being in a relationship with them.
For me, personally, I am 24. I just got out of college, I am establishing a career and building myself up financially. With that being said, why would I want a kid? Why would I want to raise another man's kid (especially since that other guy will still be in the picture)? It is more drama than needed.
What are you opinions when it comes to women (especially women in their early 20s) with kids? Would you date a woman with kids? Why or why not?
- Sure. Why Not?Vote A
- Hell No!Vote B
- See Results (Women)Vote C
Most Helpful Girl
I have a child and i have lots of money and im only looking for a companion, i really don't give a shit about a guy who doesn't want me because of my boy. I can support myself and my boy fully. I love my boy above and beyond a level that i will ever love any man.
the desperate single mom stereotype makes me annoyed we dont care lol and there are plenty of men who will date us, i am more interested in dating a man with a child because we can share in common a wonderful gift. And without the judgement, you will understand in time.1
Most Helpful Guy
I'll have a fling but nothing more.
I see this problem too. Many girls in their 20s have a kid or two or even three. They'll immediately go on ex-bf rants and talk about how their kid is so great and all that. I personally made it a deal breaker. In the 30s I know time is running low for me now but the ones who are single in the 30s I watch out for two because a lot of them are rushing marriage and kids knowing time is running low for them.
By 40s chances are they don't want one plus if they do they'll feel weird because when the son or daughter is 20 she'll be like... 60.1