He doesn't want a relationship but wants to be exclusive. Am I wasting my time?

casually seeing a guy for 8 months, after 2 months he said he didn't want a relationship. I heard he was a player but continued relations with him anyway because I liked him. Now 8 months down the line he said he only wants to get with me and for us to be exclusive, does this mean he may want a relationship now?


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  • So let me rephrase it, he wants you to be his b*tch.
    doesn't sound good? You're right, it doesn't, 8 months is plenty of time to decide to get into a relationship, you deserve better than to be his b*tch.


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  • You're definitely wasting your time if he wants no actual commitment, but he wants you not to look for commitment elsewhere.


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